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Help Your Child Quit His Pacifier Habit!

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It was a blistering cold winter’s eve in 1978. The littlest land of fairytales (Denmark) was full of happy people. Each and every person in the country was snuggled in their beds, ready for a nice long hibernating night’s sleep. Well, almost every person. There were four people awake – wide awake, because of one unhappy girl’s desperate cries. “Where is the white one? I cannot sleep without the white one! I will not sleep without my white one!” The saddest girl in the land had suddenly lost her trusty pacifier. Her source of comfort was gone – and therefore no one in her family would sleep until the entire house had been turned upside down, looking for the white one – her last pacifier.

The event is (obviously) etched in my memory with every minute detail intact and a slight bit of scarring. (Mom, if you are reading this, don’t feel too guilty. I eventually got over it – I think!) I was four years old when my parents decided to throw away my last and favorite pacifier. They apparently felt that going “cold turkey” would be the only way to wrestle the little plastic soother away from my steel grip. Check out my list of ideas to help your child quit his pacifier habit – without scarring him for life! 

Help your child quit his pacifier habit - without scarring him for life. These tips from a mother of four work!

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When does pacifier (and thumb) sucking become a bad habit?

  • Sucking pacifiers and thumbs is soothing for babies. It provides them security and has been found to reduce the risk of SIDS.
  • Most toddlers stop the sucking habit on their own, between two and four years of age.
  • Continued pacifier use and thumb sucking may cause the upper front teeth to tip toward the lip or not come in properly.
  • Extensive pacifier use or thumb sucking may impair speech and language development.
  • Partner with your pediatric dentist to monitor your child’s teeth and jaw development, especially before the permanent teething are ready to come in.

As parents we often delay and put off potentially uncomfortable “confrontations.” We quietly hope that the issues will resolve themselves, and sometimes they do. However, when pacifier use continues with no apparent end in sight, something must be done. Instead of YOU (the parent) being the “bad guy,” have the child participate in a way that he is the one who gives them away/ gets rid of them. This is a win-win situation. You give your child a sense of control and you can still be seen as the source of reassurance and comfort.

8 awesome ways to kick the pacifier to the curb. A mother of four shares her best tips and tricks of how to get babies and toddlers to give up their pacifier/ dummy - without too many tears.

Effective ways to help your child quit his pacifier habit:

  • Cold turkey: Yeah the jury is still out on whether or not this method scarred me for life! I will let you be the judge of that! Some families swear by doing it this way. It is effective and they say it only takes a toddler three days to “forget” and move on. (HA! Try 37 years!)
  • Slow and steady: This is a great “wait and see” approach to gauge if your toddler will grow out of his pacifier dependency on his own. First you limit the pacifier use to only in the house and then only when in the bed. This slower method works great for kids who probably would have outgrown the habit on his own.
  • Give the pacifiers to a baby: If a friend or relative is expecting, have your toddler wrap up all his pacifiers and give them to the new baby. (Feel free to buy another new baby gift, so you are not just handing a new mom a bag full of germ-infested plastic nipples.) If you are running low on reproducing friends, consider bringing the pacifiers to a local daycare facility where they have an infant room.
  • Put them outside and let a fairy exchange them for small gift: I have heard several variations of this method. Some families have the toddlers collect all the pacifiers, and leave them in a tree outside. The next morning there is miraculously a package in the tree, in place of the pacifiers. Remember to let the toddler box up the pacifiers, so he’s in control and HE is the one giving them away.
  • Mail them: This is such a cute idea. You help your toddler package the pacifiers to be mailed to Santa, a friend or relative who could use them. Or mail them to the grandparents for permanent storage. This will obviously only work if the grandparents live far away, so your child can’t convince you to drive over to their house to get the pacifiers the next day.
  • Go shopping and pay with pacifiers: Take your little sucker (sorry, pacifier-user) to a store he loves. Let him pick out a toy or book and have him pay with the pacifiers when you reach the register. Before you even can consider this method, please keep in mind that not all cashiers will understand what you are doing, so be sure to go to the register with a mom-looking employee.
  • Stuff the last one in a Build-a-Bear: FINALLY a good excuse to go to Build-A-Bear and get an oversized dust-mite-collector. Now your extensive collection of bears can serve a good purpose.
  • Give the pacifiers to your pediatrician or pediatric dentist: Bring the pacifiers with you to your next well-visit or check up. Hand a small gift for your child to the nurse when you arrive. Your child will give the boxed-up pacifiers to the doctor when he/ she starts the examination. The doctor will in return give your child the small gift as a thank-you from all the babies in the doctor’s practice who will benefit from the pacifiers.
  • Great tips on how to help your child stop finger sucking in just two short weeks.

The success of these suggestions will come from you getting your child’s buy-in and cooperation. He will box up the pacifiers and knowingly hand them over, simply because he is now a big kid and he wants to help others who don’t have pacifiers. You are teaching empathy, giving your child a sense of control and helping him graduate to “big kid” status without (too many) tears!

You will find these adorable books helpful!

Pacifiers Are Not Forever

Bea Gives Up Her Pacifier: The book that makes children WANT to move on from pacifiers!

No More Pacifier for Piggy!

How did YOU kick the pacifier habit as a child? Please share your personal story in the comments.

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Filed Under: Health, Parenting, Toddler (2-5 years) Tagged With: Kids, Parenting, Toddlerhood

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  1. Ligia says

    November 10, 2015 at 8:04 PM

    My sister and I made a pact, on Xmas, to quit it. She was 03 years old and I, 05.

    • Mama in the Now says

      November 10, 2015 at 9:33 PM

      That is the sweetest thing I have ever heard!

      • Ligia says

        November 10, 2015 at 9:34 PM

        We’ré Always well organized!

        • Mama in the Now says

          November 10, 2015 at 9:55 PM

          Ha ha ha – that’s cute.

  2. mamastacey says

    November 13, 2015 at 8:56 PM

    This is super hard for us! Our daughter is 2 1/2 and deaf. She now has a cochlear implant and has had a hearing aid since she turned two, but she doesn’t have the understanding of a normal two year old.

  3. LEM says

    January 14, 2016 at 4:31 PM

    Dip it in pickle juice (or something else that your kid doesn’t like) and explain that big kids don’t like the taste of pacifiers, only baby do, and since he/she doesn’t like the taste, they must be a big kid.

    Got rid of the pacifier in one nap time, and my little guy (aged 2 at the time) never wanted it again.

    • Mama in the Now says

      January 14, 2016 at 9:13 PM

      Wow – that’s a great idea! I would just have to dip it in any of my home cooking then! HA HA HA

  4. Alyssa says

    August 26, 2016 at 7:26 PM

    My philosophy for dealing with our kids is once they’re old enough to throw the pacifier out of the crib in the middle of the night, they’re old enough to not have it anymore. My youngest is 15 months and she’s the oldest to have had her paci. We stopped giving it to her this week.

    • Mama in the Now says

      August 29, 2016 at 9:11 PM

      I hope she has transitioned well. It is always exciting to reach these milestones.

  5. Caribbean mommy says

    April 30, 2017 at 2:18 PM

    I cut a tiny piece of the pacifier at the top where she sucks. ( providing there is only ONE pacifier in circulation) 1!!!!! What this does is what once was comforting for her turns into an annoyance. You will first notice your toddler looking at the paci very often wondering whats wrong with this thing. Then she will leave it hanging around very often. Once you notice that she can take naps or go on for hours without it, you then hide it. Before you know it paci will be a thing of the past. Took my daughter less than a week. Works like a charm and without the hassle. I reccommended it to all my friends.

  6. Emily says

    July 10, 2018 at 3:07 AM

    Getting rid of the pacifier is easier than I thought! I had a big problem with weaning my son off the pacifier until I’ve found on the internet that people are talking good things about ‘how to help your child give up the pacifier’and after reading it quickly I had no more questions, I just got started. Step by step instructions, lots of methods to choose from. After only 3 days it was all over without any drama 🙂 Great guide!

    • Allison says

      September 29, 2018 at 5:46 PM

      Emily, you mean parental-love.com? I found this title and checked it. The three day method is geate but i think that for older kids. We went for a trip and for my 2YO it was so absorbing, that he simply forgot about binky 🙂

  7. Sabra Casey says

    January 19, 2019 at 6:18 PM

    Thank you for sharing! I’m currently trying to get my little one off the pacifier 🙂

  8. Jen says

    April 5, 2019 at 7:41 PM

    Both my kids have birthdays around Christmas. I told them in advance that on their birthday Bink our Elf on the Shelf would take their pacifiers to the North Pole where the elves would then recycle them into toys for Christmas. They did great with this!!

    • Mama in the Now says

      April 8, 2019 at 9:08 PM

      I LOVE this idea – you are so creative and I am glad it was a good experience for you and the kids!

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