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Put an End to Nightmares and Night Terror

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My head hit the pillow with a resounding “thud” after a long day of parenting and mothering four little beings. The house had been quiet for some time. You know, the kind of eerie silence that makes you miss the kids’ daytime noisiness. I was drifting off into a sweet dream when an all too familiar sound yanked me back to reality. Jonah, our toddler, didn’t just wake up, nor was he just stirring in his bed. He was full-on thrashing and screaming. The scream sent chills down my spine. It was the sound he reserved for extreme tragedies, like when I turn off Barney in the middle of an episode he has only watched 34 times. Jonah was having a night terror – again. I decided it was time to put an end to his nightmares and night terror. 

Put an end to nightmares and night terror. A childhood sleep expert shares tips to create habits that promote sound sleep.

Jonah has been having these episodes a few times a week, and it is starting to wear on me. We recently transitioned “the babies” (aka a toddler and a preschooler) out of our family bed into a room they share. Usually shortly after midnight, Jonah conveniently enough has a night terror episode – and thereafter he ends up in our bed (again again) because I don’t have the heart to leave him in the bed.

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As with all my sleep-related parenting questions, I turned to my friend Melissa. Founder of The Cradle Coach. She wrote a great post on how to tell the difference between a nightmare and night terror, which answered a lot of my questions. However, I also wanted to know what I can proactively do to reduce the frequency of these nightly episodes. They scare the heck out of me, and I am SURE they can’t be fun for the baby (aka toddler).

Put an end to nightmares and night terror. A childhood sleep expert shares tips to create habits that promote sound sleep.

I asked Melissa how I should handle “in the middle of the night wakings.” I wasn’t sure how to comfort him – AND continue to keep him in his bed. (Something I have clearly “failed” at up until now.)

Handle Night Wakings & Keep the Kids in Their Bed:

  • If they have a bad dream, by all means go right to them and reassure them.
  • If you need to stay in the room, grab a chair and sit in the chair.
  • But if you are noticing that it has become “a habit”, and that the kids are trying to get you to stay, walk out after you have comforted them.
  • Evaluate the situation and see how they can handle things from there.

Put an End to Nightmares and Night Terror:

  • Limit television, iPads, video games, anything that can cause high stimulation during the day.
  • Turn off the electronics at least an hour or two before bed.
  • During the day, get the kids outside! Sun exposure gives the body the proper amount of Melatonin, which helps the body to fall asleep. Giving them some fresh air, keeping their bodies active, and a nice dose of sunlight will only help give them a goodnight’s rest.
  • Limit their sugar intake. Sugar, food dyes, and other processed foods can play a huge role in how your children sleep at night.
  • Get them to bed on the earlier side so they aren’t overtired. Staying up later can create your body to produce more Cortisol, also known as an adrenaline rush, making it harder for your child to settle to sleep.

Since speaking with Melissa from The Cradle Coach, I have made an effort to get the kids started on their bed time routine a little earlier and we are limiting their sugar and processed food intake, all with great success. Getting a good night’s sleep not only does wonders for the kids, but it sure revitalizes the parents.

What are your sleep-related concerns? (I will reach out to The Cradle Coach for assistance, if you share a question in the comments.)

Sweet dreams,

Mama in the Now Signature

Melissa from The Cradle Coach has shared her awesome wisdom with us before!

“Get Your Toddler to Sleep Like a Baby”

Expert Advice: Get your toddler to sleep like a baby.

“Help Your Baby Sleep Longer & Self-Soothe – Without Tears”

Expert Sleep Solutions

Filed Under: Baby (0-1 years), Health, Kid (6-9 years), Parenting, Toddler (2-5 years)

Comments

  1. mommyinsports says

    February 26, 2016 at 6:54 AM

    We used to get them ALL the time. I found that our oldest was overtired. When I got her back on a solid nap & sleep schedule they vanished. This is REALLY good advice. Our little one has nightmares now, something we’ve never dealt with before.

  2. Sandra Caballero says

    July 27, 2016 at 5:26 AM

    Thank you for this blog. I love it! I’m going to have my oldest daughter sleep early than usual. Even tho there is no school. She had woken up from bad dreams and come to my bed. It’s not comfortable sleeping on a over crowded bed. I’m still co sleeping with my toddler to nurse her. I’m going to try these tips.

  3. Molly says

    July 31, 2016 at 1:38 PM

    These are good tips for me as well. I have nightmares all the time. I hope my LO doesn’t take after me

  4. Anél-Mari says

    December 22, 2019 at 12:52 AM

    Hi
    We moved to new zealand in october and have been staying in a new house for about 2 weeks now. My son, 2yrs old, just had his first week at kindergarten but he could only stay half day because he refused to eat there. But since he started there he has been waking up at night crying uncontrolably and wanting everything he can think of in the middle of the nigt from food and juice to driving in the car. We are struggling to calm him down at night and we end up being stern with him just so that he hears our voices amd then he finally calms down and end up sleeping in our bed like a star fish for tge rest of the night. He has a mattress next to our bed on the floor where he always sleeps.

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